Frequently Asked Questions …

Q: Will my son be hazed?
A: He absolutely should not be hazed. He should never particpate in any activity that he feels uncomfortable with. If ever in doubt, make sure he knows that he can contact his fraternity headquarters for more information or clafification.

Q: How do I know if my son is being hazed?
A: Keep the lines of communication open with him and make sure that you ask what activities he's participating in. If he hesitates or says he can't tell you, probe a little further (except for the ritual, he should be able to describe everything). Some signs to look for: he is missing class, he is overly tired, his regular communication habits changes, his only focus is the fraternity, and his appearance changes radically.

Q: What are the total costs to be a member of a fraternity?
A: A good, but difficult, question. Each fraternity's dues structure is going to be different. It will also depend on whether or not the fraternity has a house. Joining a fraternity will usually require some sort of one time fee. Insurance will also be a major expense. Don't forget regular dues. What you shouldn't be paying for - ever - Alcohol.

Q: How will my son's grades be effected?
A: Ideally, they should shoot way up! Academics must be his first priority. You can help him to remember that! The fraternity can offer support in time management, tutoring, study enhancement and incentives, and class assistance. It's up to your son to make sure that he does well.

Q: What is my kid going to get out of this?
A: You'll be amazed at what your son will get from his fraternity experience. Joining a fraternity rounds out the collegiate experience. We often say that you get a complete education in a fraternity. Here's what a fraternity offers: lifelong friends, leadership opportunities, social and sports activities, academic support and excellence, and networking opportunities. Check out the other pages here at www.fraternityinfo.com for more information.

Q: Does my son have to live in the fraternity house?
A: Depends on the chapter. Likely, your son will want to live in the house to take advantage of the opportunities it presents. Make sure that the house has passed its safety inspections and is clean. Talk to the men who currently live in the house for more information about what its like to live there. Make an unannounced stop during the week to get a sense for how the brothers live. Living in the house will be some ofyour son's best memories.